Steve/Tony; Tony doesn't want Bucky around ALL the time

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I'm still trying to find the story where Steve is so happy to have Bucky back that he includes him every date with Tony, who understands and lets it slide at first.  But whenever he tries to get some alone time with his lover, Steve hauls Bucky along with them (which is not romantic in the least).  And when Steve talks about two of them...say, taking in a baseball game, he means his friend, not his lover (husband?).  At one point Steve chides Tony for his hostile attitude toward Bucky, not seeing that it's only in response to Bucky's hostility toward Tony, and the nasty glares he been sending him whenever Tony comes around.

Anybody know this one?  I've been searching for a couple weeks and can't relocate it.  Help.