Looking for a specific Gen fic (mention of past underage non-con

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In this fic, the Avengers get drunk (I think) and start sharing their first sexual experience. I think it's told from Natasha's pov, and something about how there's a chance someone has been raped in the past but the she (or the narrator) still gets sad and shocked when Tony told the story.

I think it happened when he was 14 or so, and it was with a teacher, and Tony doesn't really want to think about it as rape.

I've been looking for this fic for about a week, I'd really appreciate it if you guys can help me find this!