FOUND: Steve/Tony time travel fic

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Searching for a story that was written before Avengers and before Captain America that had Tony time traveling back to Cap's time. They fell in love and became a couple, but Steve wanted Tony to go back to his own time and Tony didn't even though he had figured out how. Steve ended up sending him back against his wishes, so when they find him in the ice later, Tony is resentful towards him but Steve doesn't understand why since he can't remember. I know it was posted here on livejournal and a WIP, but I never bookmarked it. I'm hoping someone recognizes this.

thanks in advance!

EDIT: it's ailette's Living in Color. Thanks to remy!