It's totally understandable where you're coming from, and its clear now that you gave the long "rant" (wasn't really" to explain your point of view so it didn't just come across as random character bashing. Also the way you said it wasn't overtly offensive or rude or anything, just sounded like you're not particularly fond of Pepper or rather how she treated Tony in IM3.
Super super nice response to agenderbitch though, serious points in my book for that.