This is a theme I love so going through my bookmarks for it. Some are more extreme than others on how awesome Tony is.
inukagome15 and everythingispeotry both consistantly write awesome!tony
http://archiveofourown.org/users/inukagome15/pseuds/inukagome15

http://archiveofourown.org/users/everythingispoetry/pseuds/everythingispoetry

http://archiveofourown.org/works/307018

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8617563/1/The-Winged-Soul

http://archiveofourown.org/works/431239 (fem!tony)

http://archiveofourown.org/works/493766

http://archiveofourown.org/works/670435

http://archiveofourown.org/works/657995

http://archiveofourown.org/works/606692

http://archiveofourown.org/works/567367

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8930240/1/

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8495493/1/

http://avengerkink.livejournal.com/8247.html?thread=18515255#t18515255

http://avengerkink.livejournal.com/8247.html?thread=18479927#t18479927 (fem!tony)

http://avengerkink.livejournal.com/8247.html?thread=18225719#t18225719

http://avengerkink.livejournal.com/8247.html?thread=17758263#t17758263

http://avengerkink.livejournal.com/6565.html?thread=12422565#t12422565

http://avengerkink.livejournal.com/6021.html?thread=8836485#t8836485

http://avengerkink.livejournal.com/5102.html?thread=5468142#t5468142

http://avengerkink.livejournal.com/4305.html?thread=2840529#t2840529

http://avengerkink.livejournal.com/4305.html?thread=3088337#t3088337

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8762206/1/Newborn

http://archiveofourown.org/works/434023

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8735886/1/The-Secrets-We-Hide

http://archiveofourown.org/works/575722

http://archiveofourown.org/works/381279

http://archiveofourown.org/works/429486

http://archiveofourown.org/works/470990 (fem!tony)

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8509394/1/Points-of-View

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8295666/1/Papabear

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8510600/1/A-for-Effort

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8234169/1/A-Good-Man

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8197691/1/Cant-Phase-Through

http://archiveofourown.org/works/424586

http://archiveofourown.org/series/23817

http://archiveofourown.org/works/293232

http://archiveofourown.org/works/369098 (fem!tony)